A Time to be Silent

“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” Ecclesiastes 3:1 (KJV)

These familiar words are comforting and give perspective to a lot of situations, many of which are listed in the verses that follow. For example, verse 7 mentions that there is a time to be silent and a time to speak. How true is that? That wisdom can save us a lot of trouble.

I have found that wisdom practically helpful in the work of apologetics. As much as I wish to share my faith or speak up when I see error or answer those who question my faith, I have learned that sometimes it is better to be quiet.  I am referring to situations when someone is being unreasonable and/or insincere. You may have had encounters like this either in person or online. In those moments, it is wise to be silent. That is not always easy. I sometimes feel like I am missing important opportunities or not standing up for what I believe in. What helped was seeing that there are verses in the book of Proverbs that show why it’s a good idea to be silent in these situations. They gave me insight that took away the pressure of saying nothing. I have reviewed some of these relevant proverbs in a new article in Defense for Our Hope. It is Apologetics and the Wisdom of Proverbs. I hope you find it helpful when you face similar situations.

“… A time to be silent and a time to speak.” Ecclesiastes 3:7b (NASB)

Sharon Lareau

Founder of Chapter 3 Ministries. Ministering in the spirit of Titus 2:3-5 and encouraging women to contend for the faith. Wife, mom, and gigi! Homeschooler for 18 years. Mostly housebound since 2008 due to chronic pain illness that started in 1996. Diagnosed with CIRS in 2024. Trusting in a good and sovereign God.